You are broke and having hard time trying to make your love one happy?. It's always a better ways and inexpensive ways to spark your relationship alive. Who say no money cannot "pat tor"/"dating", no more such song to sing lo, you can find ways to show how much your love to her every week or possible every day with a little bit of effort. Although it's little and inexpensive, it definitely will payoff your "heart work" in innumerable ways. Hear this before? —> "Sikit sikit, lama lama jadi bukit" .
Sometimes it's good to remain inexpensive because, love is not weighted by how much cash in your pocket but rather how sincere is you to her that make her feel comfortable and happy together with you.
Why choose inexpensive ways?. Well, you could think of 1000 ways to make her happy with money but you may have hard time to think of 1000 ways without using money to make her happy. You could probably rent a helicopter flying her to a hill side 5 star hotel, booked the whole restaurant just to have candle light dinner with her, but how many people can afford that? I don't know about you but I can't afford more than 2 times a month, I would be eating "ROTI" for breakfast, lunch and dinner for the rest of the month.
Here's some of the ways you probably can use to save your money for a 5-carat diamond to her as a surprise:
1 ) Take bath together (with plenty of bubbles)
2 ) Relax, give her a massage
3 ) Hug together and watch romantic downloaded movie together
4 ) Read out or write her a poem.
5 ) Jog together at nearest garden or beach
6 ) Flowers, pick some nice one (wild) on your way back home
7 ) Wet yourself in the rain and kiss her
8 ) Load your handphone with lot of love songs and listen together
9 ) Read thestar newspaper horoscope/cartoon together
10) A love email a day keep her smiling for days
11) Shine by the moon, walk on the beach
12) Warm her on a rainy day, hugging !
13) Read online poetry together
14) Prepare small notes and leave it anywhere
15) Watch shooting stars at your lobby or nearby garden together
16) Good old days, go back to places where your early days of dating
17) Make photo frame from wood or paper and little notes with some lovely word to her
18) Close light and light some candles, listening to romantic song together.
19) Fix something up in the house (leaking pipes) just to make her
20) Tidy up the house, you swipe the floor and she mop the floor together
21) Close light and light some candles, slow dance to romantic music
22) Take nap together
23) Dress up yourself handsomely, make yourself looks good to her
24) Touch her, back and neck slowly
25) Prepare an A-Z list of everything you love about her
26) Forward her romantic email you received from friends
27) Be soothing, talk gently in quiet time about your day
28) Romantic movie scene, recall those favourite scene she likes
29) Your first date does matter, recreate the scene back
30) Get a little box and fill up with thing her favourite things inside.
31) Be creative, use pen to draw a tattoo in her body
32) Have fun being some sexy role play
33) Whisper to her ear and say 'I Love You'
34) Say I Love You in a different language each day
35) Use feather touching her skin, slowly
36) Sing her favourite song, if you can't sing well, sing the chorus
37) Walk on pretty light, holding each other hands firmly
38) Publicly tell her she's yours, posting photo with her in friendster
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June 5th, 2007 at 2:29 pm
You'll need 365 languages then for Pt 34! And is repeating them the next year allowed? haha.. just kidding..
Nice article!
June 5th, 2007 at 6:12 pm
"Relax, give her a massage" - haha, my wife often talk about this but after a couple of seconds of massaging her, I get sleepy and dooze off…
June 7th, 2007 at 4:07 pm
Nice post… I think guys should know all these
June 9th, 2007 at 12:09 pm
Love Coach Sg:
You got it right ! But there are thousand of ethnic in the world, if you can speak out every ethnic language a day, you can use it for 3 years.
Balajoe:
Hi bala, thanks for dropping by, haha…got get a massage equipment from osim or ogawa, maybe your wife is giving you clue to get her one. hehe..
SiewKwan:
Absolutely, all guys should practice this.
June 9th, 2007 at 3:19 pm
hmm… like the advise especially Wet yourself in the rain and kiss her hahaha.. how to do that?
definitely will use this on my next posting.. cheers!!
August 1st, 2007 at 4:37 pm
You write really well. I don't agree with everything you wrote but you have a way of nearly convincing me.