Recently I just spotted this video clips, I take initiative to download these video clips and hope to place it on here to share with you guys. I struggled and finally gave up, I guess it’s something to do with my wordpress 2.0.5 and Tiny MCE plugin. Videojug had this video clip about how to be the perfect boyfriend/girlfriend. Interesting, interesting, interesting, being perfect to someone you really love is something wonderful. Don't miss watching it.
How To Be The Perfect Boyfriend?
Step 1 - Listen to her
Girls like to talk a lot, about things you don't really understand such as shopping, makeup, and feelings. It's important to seem interested no matter how confused you are because girls value communication above all things. If you do lose the thread, and she suddenly demands a response, here are a few phrases that may come in useful: "What an interesting story!" or "I can't believe it, tell me again- in more detail" or if all else fails- "oh sorry, I was just thinking about how much I love you."Step 2 - Love her friends and family
No matter how great you think you are, you're not the only person in her life. Her family and friends are also important to her. Remember key facts about them, such as their names - so you avoid saying things like 'oh her, the fat one with the hair' Try and make them your friends too.This way, when you screw up and she runs crying to them, you've got someone on the inside. Remember hell hath no fury like a woman's friends.
Step 3 - Be a man
In the olden days, it was all about be a mans man, then it was briefly about being a woman's man, now its about being the perfect man. The operative word here is 'man'.Sure you can carry her bag, open doors, and pump iron, But can you be supportive and facilitate her ability to achieve? Has she got a new job? Give her a call. Has she written a poem? Read it. And if she's afraid of the dark? Be the one who turns on the light.
Step 4 - In the bedroom
When it comes to bedtime, and matters of the night you need to be play your woman like a piano - you can play a soft sonata, some freeform jazz, or a drive time power ballad. Whatever song she's in the mood for, play it well and you're bound to get an encore.Step 5 - Surprise her
Take her out for dinner! Buy her some flowers! If it's been a good month treat her to a mini-break! This last option is fantastic, as it gives her ample opportunity to reward you.Step 6 - Be hygienic
The perfect man is the wind beneath her wings not the wind beneath the duvet. Be respectful, contain and disguise your bodily odours. She does it, why can't you?
Shower regularly, always brush your teeth and stay well groomed.Top Tip: Deodorant is for after the shower, not instead of it.
Step 7 - Be faithful
If you're with this girl it's for a reason, decide early if you're serious about her, and then never ever mess around.
How to be the perfect girlfriendSince man ran naked on the veldt he has changed very little. Sure, he's harnessed fire, built the pyramids, and walked on the moon, but he's still a caveman at heart. His needs haven't really changed for thousands of years: food, beer, women.
But how is this compatible with your sophisticated, modern life? It isn't! But it can be. With just a few simple tips you can be the perfect girlfriend, which should make him want to be the perfect boyfriend.
Step 1 - Relax your standards
The perfect girlfriend is not a plastic doll. While you should endeavour to maintain your femininity, once in a while let your guard down: eat like a pig, slouch around, or leave the washing up. You can even surprise him be getting him to pull your finger. This way he will feel comfortable in your presence, and you in his.Step 2 - But make an effort
With this in mind, remember that it is important to make an effort and sometimes dress up special. We know it's not practical all the time, but he'll appreciate it, and you'll feel more attractive.Step 3 - Massage his ego
Remember that the male ego is as fragile as it was all those years ago when he first lost his way back to the cave. Make your boyfriend feel good about himself - even if he is getting in your way- let him be useful and tell him he's great. Don't nag him into submission, as there is nothing sexy about a downtrodden man.
You know the bed's not made properly, but congratulate him on having a go. You know that isn't an omelette, but it contains eggs doesn't it? So well done him!Step 4 - Feed him
Like it or not, the old adage is true - the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. You don't have to cook, but keep your local takeaway on speed dial. Remember if your boyfriend is hungry, his attention will shift suddenly from you to the fridge. Don't take it personally, it's primal. Symptoms of hunger to look out for include: grumpiness, slightly flared nostrils or he may appear to be hunting. If he gets like this, don't suggest salad.Step 5 - Give him space
A man's friends are important to him, and so is his ability to spend time with them, where he will do male activities like growling, fighting and measuring things, simple pursuits that confuse a complex female mind. Allow him the space to maintain these relationships. Let him roam, and when he comes home he'll be ready to spend quality time with you.Step 6 - Listen to him
Men enjoy explaining things. Be it the mechanics of bridges, why Sean Connery's the best Bond, or the complexities of the offside rule, even if he's being patronising allow him his airtime, and he will then shut up, leaving you to enjoy the peace and quiet of a loving and giving relationship.Step 7 - In the bedroom
When it comes to bedtime and matters of the night, your needs may be different. Sex is a simple matter for him: he wants it, whenever, wherever. Never put out if you aren't in the mood, but do accept he always will be, and don't tell him off because he finds you devastatingly attractive all of the time. And if you really don't fancy it, just distract him with beer.
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January 11th, 2007 at 10:29 am
*unfortunately*, my personal experience is to the contrary… girls nowadays, especially in the big cities, just want your money.
If you can pay for their meals, shopping, trips and drive them around in a nice car, I find that they don't care too much whether you give them a great massage or whatever. Just as long as you're clean and not psychotic, they will put up with a lot of things as long as you spend money on them. You want to tie them to the bed and have your way with them? No problem, a new watch does the trick. You want them to lick you from head to toe? Non problemo, just take them to Le Francais.
The older girls with their own money is not like this, of course, but sadly, many young girls are.
January 11th, 2007 at 11:56 am
Hey there! This is an incredibly interesting article. It caught my eye in an instant at the PPS site.
For both to be perfect, I guess they'll just have to learn to accept and tolerate each other.
For a relationship to work, it certainly takes 2 hands to clap.
January 11th, 2007 at 1:34 pm
In all the years that I've been in the game, I've learnt one important lesson.
There is no such thing as a perfect boyfriend or girlfriend. There is no such thing as a perfect person.
There are only perfect relationships between imperfect people. The rest is always negotiable.